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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

The last 2 responses are interesting, but my concern is that a "family meeting" would make it more of an issue than it needs to be. Though I have suggested such a meeting previously to address some seriously disrespectful behavior to both my ex and me, it never happened.

[b]Maybe the best thing is to talk to her, and have her tell her mom, which I will then follow up on with my ex.  The problem is that D15 may manipulate and diminish the situation by telling her in a softened way.[/b]

Or maybe I ask my kid how she feels it should be handled both with regard to the weed and with her mother.  I remember when my parents would say "What do you think should happen as a result of &lt;incident/behavior&gt;?"  That was almost worse than a punishment.

Also, it's true that I would want to know and be furious if my ex didn't tell me.

I live on the west coast and attitudes out here are pretty lax about this stuff.  I find DCUM forum to be an excellent resource for all things family and parent related.

Thanks again for all the input.  [/quote]

you talk to her, have her talk to her mom, you follow up with your ex. [/quote]

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