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[quote=Anonymous] Having done a lot of reading to cope with my Narcissist girlfriend, textbooks will tell you that NPDs (after charming the shit out of you to "set the hook" and reassure their esteem-less selves that they are indeed powerfully attractive), will put you through cycle after cycle of rapture and hell as they emotionally pull you toward them, creating a vulnerability within you, and then discard you out of contempt for that very weakness and vulnerability that they invited. And they get satisfaction (power) out of seeing the destruction they were able to cause. Like a harmonica that makes music whether you blow it or suck it, they get Narcissistic fuel whether the relationship is going well or not. They just need an instrument to play. The bullying is only the false expression of power to hide their incredibly fragile true self hiding beneath. If you're getting a divorce, consider yourself lucky for breaking the cycle. [/quote]
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