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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]soooo you helping by paying might not solve her issue...sounds like she will be right here again unless SHE makes adjustments on her own...not YOU making the adjustment for her. Those arrangements never last for ever. Things change when the person makes the permanent change. She needs to make adjustments in maybe where she lives and how she spends her money. Perhaps she needs to get a room mate, move back home, etc[/quote] I agreed to help (again) only under the condition that I manage her finances for her. She is 42 years old and has gone through this cycle countless times over her adult life. She finally came to terms with the fact that she simply cannot manage her money on her own. She has compulsive spending issues (related to her bipolar disorder), which makes her low income situation a complete disaster. I'm glad she's finally come to the realization. There is no moving back home -- she never left "back home".[/quote]
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