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[quote=Anonymous]Whatever.  You are still blaming your SILs for not being the kind of SIL you expect.  It's your brothers' job to manage the relations on their side of the family, not your SILs.  If you think your SILs are controlling and preventing your brothers from having the kind of relationship they would like with your family then you should have sympathy for them and accept visits from them on any terms you can - much like you would if your brothers were in abusive relationships. How do you think loved ones of those in abusive relationships do it (I actually have a lot of experience in this area).  But that's not what you did.  You said it was 'all or none'.

People are calling you controlling because you are demanding something of your SILs that is unreasonable.  You blame your SILs for not returning your phone calls yet you say they text you.  They don't even need to do that yet you call them rude. It doesn't matter how many times a year you expect it.   It's your brothers that you need to speak to and should have expectations of.  If your expectations aren't being met, it's their fault, not their wives.  [/quote]

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