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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. My understanding is my brother didn't take any furniture. I think he rented a furnished apartment but I don't really know his living situation. I actually sort of get her impulse to redecorate since it's the stuff they shared (and a lot was inherited from my relatives) but I still feel really sad about the waist. Apart from concern for my brother and nephew I also assume this will indirectly impact my finances - if my parents feel compelled to help my brother (and I'm sure they do) there's less, for instance, to help with gifts toward our own college savings etc. That's not a main concern at all, but I do think that's in the back of my mind. [/quote] When his erratic behavior and threats required my ex move out, he initially didn't remove furnishings he owned from before marriage. However, I knew he would get them in the divorce and I replaced them before he claimed his stuff so here wouldn't be a night my kids and I didn't what we needed. Solid wood. Not IKEA. It was not an issue for the judge.[/quote] Your case sounds absolutely NOTHING like this one. Your ex was forced from your home due to his threats & threatening/erratic behavior, of course a judge is going to sympathize with you, duh. She also said that her SIL is spending extravagantly on non essential items. A judge is definitely going to take issue with reckless spending in an irresponsible way, especially when it's to the tune of emptying out their children's college funds to pay for her spa dates & over priced nonsense. You're ridiculous if you think buying your "solid wood" furniture (lol) even compares to the frivolous spending in this case. There's always one who just has to make everything about themselves though. :roll: [/quote] Written in response to the person who implied that only furniture already removed was acceptable to replace and that it should be IKEA type.[/quote]
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