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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask her to try a new position for a couple of minutes, saying that you heard that some women say it feels amazing. You hit a different angle in all those various positions and she can have more or different kinds of orgasms. Don't do it anywhere near a mirror if it is body issues. Make sure to grab her hips and pull her into you.

I hated from behind for a long time. But now it is my favorite. And there are many ways to do it. [/quote]

OP, please do not "say you heard that some women say it feels amazing." That's weird, while you're trying to have sex with a DW you love and want -- it would be a real passion-killer to hear my DH citing "some women like this" as if he had been scanning Cosmo for tips. Instead, talk intimately to her about what you love about her body, especially if she is self-conscious about  aspects of her body.

OP, have you talked with her (beyond just asking during sex and hearing "no") about wanting new positions? If you can make this about how much you want and love her, and wanting to heighten intimacy and have fun (yeah, fun--we laugh a lot trying new stuff!), maybe she will compromise and try new things for your sake even if she's not that into them. Give her the positions she prefers and work up to new ones increasingly. As for her wanting to face you--in positions where you're not facing, talking to her might help--saying how good it feels, how you like the feel of her backside against you, etc.

You don't want her to think you're saying "I'm bored, our marriage is at risk"; you want her to hear, "I'm crazy about you just the way you are and trust you so much I would like to try new things--I'm not talking about every time but some of the time."[/quote]

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