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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would find a time when you are on a date and feeling relaxed to talk to her about it.  Wanted to spice things up after a couple decades is completely normal.  If she has a higher drive, maybe you could do one of those sex everyday for a month challenges if in return she'll let you try some new positions.  Or you could get a book a separately mark a couple things you'd like to try, and then have the other person pick from those things.[/quote]

You know, in most situations, I'd agree with the talking about it in a nice calm setting advice. But, in this case, when we're just talking about a shift of positions, I'd almost recommend he just shift her how he wants her while they're in the middle of the act and she's a little worked up. If she says "no" or acts uncomfortable with the shift, then he should stop. But, things that seem gross or uncomfortable or weird in the abstract can seem pretty hot when you're in the middle of sex. I wouldn't recommend the "just go for it" approach to most sex stuff, but changing positions seems low-risk enough to give it a go. [/quote]

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