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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.  I think some of the guilt comes because I had PPD when DC was born.  I feel like DC picked up on this (I know, it may or may not be crazy).[/quote]

Actually, I think DC is picking up on the fact that he/she reminds you of your spouse and inlaws and that you dislike those traits in him/her.

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OP here. Legitimate point - I do worry about that.[/quote]

It's not something to worry about it's something to change as in stop doing it. You probably don't realize it but your behavior with your other DCs is different which is understandable because you find it easier to get along with them, but to your child that is favoritism. Of course your child gravitates to the parent they feel loves them.
spend less time focusing on " how to change my kid so I can like him"  and more time focuding on how you can change this negative attitude.
Look for things that you love about this child and tell him or her so. [/quote]

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