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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem is not the desire to live near family. The problem is the refusal to compromise.[/quote] +1. Well phrased. Please, OP, go back and re-read the post detailing why serious premarital counseling is essential. As that PP said, do not just do some weekend-long couples retreat with a group. Also don't just do a few sessions with the pastor who's going to do the wedding. Get a therapist who specializes in couples counseling and tell your fiancé that you and he both need to commit to full participation and openness. Your fiancé seems to think that you're going to "come around" in time and do what he tells you. Big red flag--not just about in-laws and their boundaries but also about how much he does or does not respect you as an equal partner with a say in your lives that is equal to his. [/quote]
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