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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I wish DH could have said something along the lines of "I'm home in three weeks, let's wait until I'm home to go out for dinner" when his parents told me they wanted to take me out. He knows I hate this kind of stuff. I don't know why he didn't think of how I would feel about it.[/quote] You are an adult. You don't need your DH to speak for you and it sounds like they asked you directly, not through him. You need to own your own feelings about this - they aren't his responsibility. And your feelings are immature and self-centered. Introverts got to dinner all the time. They are likely inviting you out because he is away for so long as a nice gesture. It sounds like you barely interact and expect your husband to carry the conversation with them so they may see this as an opportunity to get to know you. Act like an adult and go to dinner.[/quote]
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