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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dated her in college.  We never had sex, because she was a virgin at the time.  But we fooled around a lot, though she didn't want to go all the way.  She eventually ended up breaking up with me because I slept with someone else.

It's been several years now and I still think about her all the time.  I have a great girlfriend who is beautiful, supportive, smart, but I still think of this girl all the time.

It's moving towards the point where I should propose, been 4 years of dating now.  And I just wonder if I should contact college girl or not, before I'm officially off the market.  Or if this is a normal thing for guys, thinking about someone from your past.[/quote]

Get over her.  She is only appealing because she is now forbidden fruit.  There are a million more like her.

Further, to her you are damaged goods and she won't be coming back no matter how much you tell her you have changed.[/quote]

She contacted me about a year and a half after we broke up.  I had just met my current GF, and I told her I would call her, but I never did, because I thought about it and realized I wanted to give things a shot.  Also I was still a bit angry about the breakup.  So, I know at that time she was open to a conversation, at least.  I don't know about now.[/quote]

You were angry and you were the one who cheated on her? Why would you want a virgin? What is wrong with you? [/quote]

I didn't want her because she was a virgin.  I fell in love with her, not knowing she was a virgin.  When we finally got together, she didn't want to go past hooking up and finally told me.

And technically we were on a break when I cheated, but it was definitely an iffy situation.[b] It was my first major real "heart broken" situation and I begged her to reconsider (literally, that took a lot of my pride and flushed it down the toilet) and she refused and started dating someone else.[/b]  Even though I understand what I did wrong it was just a very negative time for me[/quote]

It sounds like you want to revisit some past trauma and "make it right." I would just move on. Chances are, even if she agreed, you'd probably lose interest in her quickly since this is probably not about her and more about your own hurt feelings.

Also, it sounds like you are young and probably not ready to be engaged. [/quote]

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