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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You turned him into an enemy by divorcing him or giving him grounds for divorce, so what the hell do you expect?[/quote]

He cheated on me and was emotionally abusive and financially controlling while I stayed home with the kids. But okay...[/quote]

Listen. You have posted 100 times on this site and I advise you to come to the US but don't post "you don't really know somebody until you divorce".

You clearly knew he was crazy.

You are wrapped up in the drama. You need to stop posting and get serious amounts of therapy.

Good luck![/quote]

To OP's credit, I have replied/posted a bunch of times about my XH's emotional and financial abuse while I was a SAHM. So, it is not all her.

However, I agree that the topic of this post isn't

But knowing this process, going through this kind of divorce myself, it makes you bounce through periods of crazy and periods of clarity. You have to keep reminding yourself that you did the right thing getting out, often doubting yourself.

I have an amazing circle of friends and family, and therapy. But sometimes you need some place to dump and you have to give your circle a break. That is why DCUM is helpful. Dump, get it out, move on and if people here don't want to read it, they don't have to get involved.[/quote]

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