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[quote=Anonymous]Well, I guess I'm taking it slowly relative to him. He wanted to meet my family, I'd like to give it some time. He wanted me to meet his kids when they came home for the summer, I offered that they probably only care that he's happy, and to tell them all about us if he wants. But they just don't need to meet me after only 12 weeks. Of course I'd like to meet them eventually. We need to get further along though.

So I'm trying to pump the brakes. But am I invested? Sure. I guess it's hard to hold back emotionally; I've  missed companionship, holding hands, etc. Great sex doesn't hurt either. I'm talking simple stuff. That's what happiness is for me. Not so much grand gestures. I'm 39 and he's 50; I figure  we're too old for that stuff anyway. :)

To the posters calling me batshit, look I'm not proud of my behavior last night. I don't enjoy that kind of thing, and I agree I let insecurity get the best of me. It's just hard not to feel discouraged. I'm in the best shape of my life, financially independent, and have a great kid with a no-drama ex. I'd like to share my life with someone. But perhaps he's not that guy. Anyway thanks for the perspective.[/quote]

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