Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "He thinks I stopped taking the pill"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be honest but set some concrete goals that you want to accomplish beforehand. Tell your husband that you will feel ready when goals are met. This way it will feel like you are moving a forward instead of just waiting for the heck of it.[/quote] I agree with this. Get an emergency fund built. Buy a house/move if you're going to. Pay off student loans. Those are all steps on the way to having a solid foundation for a family - especially one where you're bringing in multiple children. FWIW, I got an IUD and told DH that we could try when it was time to have it removed. 5 years later we are in a good place financially, our relationship is great, and we have settled into our careers and understand what our future looks like. I'm much more confident going into kids now than I was 5 years ago fresh out of grad school. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
