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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, the deception is pretty awful.  Not being ready is fine, but the constant lying and letting him get his hopes up for something he wants is not.

Reverse the situation.  What if your [b]DH got a vasectomy[/b] before you are ready but didn't tell you and you spent 6 months to a year trying to have a baby?  Wouldn't you be livid about the lie?[/quote]

100% this.

You're in trouble if you guys can't be honest with each other. [/quote]

But that's not the same situation. A vasectomy (most of the time!) is permanent. Op wants to have children, but just not yet. A guy getting a vasectomy just shuts down the whole process. It's not like she got her tubes tied and didn't tell him. [/quote]

PP here.  If there were temporary male birth control, I would have used that as an example.  Is OP or is OP not engaging in a long, involved lie to her DH as opposed to communicating with him?  That is the point of the analogy, not the permanence of the birth control method.[/quote]

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