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[quote=Anonymous]This is one of those issues where if I let myself be sad about it, I would completely miss the point of my experiences.

I started trying to bring a second child into my home when my one living child was 3. Hinestly, no one can't plan for 7 consecutive losses, and complications from d&cs, and over a year's worth of being pregnant without ever meeting yiur baby alive.

I personally believe my infertility exists for no other reason than to remind me how little control I actually have over my own life and health (says healthy fitness instructor/dancer who now fully understands first-hand that terrible things happen and sometimes we can't do anything about it). My daughter will be nine if we are ever fortunate enough to bring what feels like a missing family member into our home.

I mourn all of the babies I have lost, but I just don't have the bandwidth to be sad about an age gap. I will feel fortunate if I can bring a healthy baby into the world at all.

https://justonemorebaby.blogspot.com[/quote]

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