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[quote=Anonymous]It will get better, then it will get hard, then it will get better again and it will get hard again. 2 years divorced and I still struggle. Especially around the holidays. I've learned to pick up hobbies and use my time wisely on the weekends when I don't have the kids (we split 50/50 and alternate weekends) so that when my kids are with me, I'm 100% with them. They get more quality out of me for sure. It's the quantity that I struggle with. My son lost a tooth and I wasn't able to be the tooth fairy = crushing. I only communicated with my asshole XH about the kids, and it's facts. Never anything negative. Think of texting him as a business transaction, it makes it easier, takes the emotions out of it. My kids both have cell phones now (which of course I pay for, he doesn't...) but it makes it MUCH easier that I can communicate with them even when they are not with me. Good luck![/quote]
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