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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I would do it if husband was on board. maybe he will agree to it in exchange for lowering child support. [/quote]

If the kids are living with her and it's not economically feasible then of course she should move. They'll have to figure out holidays, summers or however it works out. I moved before we divorced and established residency. The divorce wasn't put through until 1.5 years later so nothing could be done. Some need to move for finances or family support.

OP maybe just do a separation and see how it works for a year or so. Move and see how you all do with the kids visiting DH. It can work well. He can see them Christmas vacations, spring break, summers etc.

And that's a good idea to offer lower child support so it can be a win win for all.[/quote]

If OP's STBX wants joint custody as per the OP there's about a 0% chance he's going to agree to this.  Kids living a few hours away and only seeing them over the summer and on vacations...good luck getting him to agree.

The only reason it worked in your particular situation is because your Ex didn't object.  If your ex wanted to fight you over it he could have requested a temporary custody order.[/quote]

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