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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- if she can lie about something like this even after you proposed?

Just imagine what she could or may lie about during your married life together. "Oh I was going to tell you that DS wasn't really yours but I was too afraid of your reaction to paternity test results."[/quote]

OP, if you had not found out, the wedding would have proceeded and she quite possibly would have been committing bigamy. Not to mention making a colossal fool of you and a sham of your vows in front of family and friends. All just out of fear of...what, exactly? That you'd be upset and angry? That she'd lose you?

The only way this might be excusable could be if she had experienced some trauma that paralyzed her with fear at the idea of crossing her ex. Something like fear he'd find and abuse her if she pressed to finalize the divorce. But he's the one who told you the truth so he's not the problem, is that right? Then it's down to whether you feel this is her only lie now and whether you are confident she won't lie to you in the future....[/quote]

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