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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.[b] I think she sees it as doing a favor, even though SHE asks to see them[/b], so she expects me to do the schlepping. Because she's doing a favor.

I see it as she wants to see them at a random time and wants me to coordinate it all. [/quote]

OMG, OP, I can totally relate.  My MIL begs to see the kids (at much inconvenience to us) and then my FIL starts up with us about how we are taking advantage of MIL, how we're not grateful she's "babysitting" them for us for free, and how we have to practically kiss her feet thanking her.

When we back off (basically say no to the visits), she calls us crying (yes, crying) that we won't let her see her grandkids.  So, we say okay and the whole cycle starts all over again.  Honestly, it's exhausting.

My advice to you?  be as straightforward as you can and when she complains that you won't let her see the kids, explain that the drive is too long and you don't need the break.  She is more than welcome to visit anytime, but you'll stick to your bi-monthly visits.[/quote]

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