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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't say anything until they ask questions. You cannot blame the mom in this situation. She did not cheat on you, your husband did. He is to blame. You are angry at her, when you should be angry at him. You are right to allow the kids to know each other and I would allow the child in your home as it is not her fault. Place the blame in the right place, your husband.[/quote] +1 When asked, you can say the child was and is innocent in this, and they are a sibling, so you didn't want to cut them off from each other. And DH made a huge mistake, but was extremely sorry, asked and worked for your forgiveness. (And I surely hope for your sake that he has.) Get individual therapy for you now, and consider family therapy later. [/quote]
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