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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't say anything until they ask questions.  You cannot blame the mom in this situation.  She did not cheat on you, your husband did.  He is to blame.  You are angry at her, when you should be angry at him.  You are right to allow the kids to know each other and I would allow the child in your home as it is not her fault.  Place the blame in the right place, your husband.[/quote]

This. It might be hard to digest but this is all the truth and it's the right way to be. [/quote]

It's not hard to digest at all.  I don't blame the mom but I don't see why she should be around my children, and so she is not allowed to see them.

Obviously the blame lies with the husband. But I already know how to talk to him.  What I don't quite know is how to talk about this with the kids, and this is why I'm asking if anyone has dealt with this. [/quote]

Isn't she around when they do pick up/drop off.  Personally, I'd be more concerned the affair is still going on and having 3 kids will probably create less of an environment to cheat.  You don't say anything more to the kids.  They are young and will figure it out as they get older.[/quote]

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