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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh wow.  Ok, well first you need to decide what YOU are doing.  If you are going to stay with him (WTF?!?!) then you will need to let your anger to towards him and the other woman and their love child.

Since he is so open with the kids then you will have to be also and it will completely change their perspective about cheating -- which is fine since you are going to stay with him.

That said my DH's found out about his father's love child at 11.  Totally fucked him up because his mom decided to stay with his father for about 5 more years THEN divorced him.  Those years were miserable and he remembers them specifically.  So you really need to decide if you are going to be miserable or not since that is what will mess your children up.  Not their dad having an affair.[/quote]
If I understand you correctly, you say that what fucked up your DH was the miserable time between the lovechild's discovery and his parents' divorce? Do you think he would have been less traumatized if the home life has been calmer? What do you think would have made it easier on him?[/quote]

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