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Reply to "Men, is it true that you prefer successful women who have already solved their own problems?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is a mistake to try to counterbalance your neediness with a "successful" persona. You should not be flaunting anything. I think the ideal is to be emotionally self-contained and humble. Humble enough to show vulnerability in a measured way and humble enough not to brag about your success as a badge of honor. And this IS gendered. Men appreciate vulnerability and even a little self consciousness in women as long as it is not out of control. Men are not attracted to tough no nonsense women who walk around with affected bravado. [/quote]
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