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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just wanted to say that you are not alone! I could have written this post, and also struggle with anxiety in situations where I know DC might react from past experiences. Wellbutrin and time have helped some, as well as seeing my child improve somewhat  with age and a more suitable school environment. [/quote]

Op here.  Thanks.  We were at a Passover Seder tonight and it's so hard to see other kids (younger than DS) able to sit through the Seder while my DS sneers at me and sends awful text messages during every break.  Can I really chalk that up to anxiety?  All I know is that it put me on edge throughout the evening, which makes me sad.[/quote]

I have been in similar situations OP and although you have to find the right balance, we very often avoid situations where my extremely anxious DC is not likely to do well. Crowded, loud places, places where there are strong expectations for behavior, places where my kid will be surrounded by people he/she does not know well. It makes life easier for all of us. You don't want to accommodate the anxiety with avoidance, but there are many situations where I can anticipate how difficult they will be for DC and, in turn, us as parents, and we just don't go or find a lower-key way to participate. (Show up for dessert, or come early/leave early.)[/quote]

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