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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you handle these situations in your marriage?  Would it make you uncomfortable?  If you're not irrationally jealous, does your husband respect your feelings?

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I'm fortunate that we both feel the same.  I typically work with a lot of guys so it isn't that unusual for me to go to lunch with them.  That said, it is usually a group invitiation.  I see those interactions as being different than the person that is dating someone at the office but trying to keep it in the downlow and  you see them always eating lunch together and you just get this vibe that you are intruding/not a group invitation. I don't really have an outside of work/meeting them alone or constant outside of work personal texts.  Both DH and I like to keep work life separate so we aren't best friends with co-workers in general.  So for that to change in and of itself would be a red flag.

If it is a longtime friend, it wouldn't make me uncomfortable unless it was at the expense of spending time with the family.  I feel like if you have known each other 15-20 years including when one or the other or both were single and nothing has happened, most likely they aren't each other type.[/quote]

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