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[quote=Anonymous]OP again.  Thanks so much for everyone's input, advice and anecdotes.  So, so helpful right now!

I don't think I can squeeze in everything everyone asked, but about diet – we have her on omega 3s by Nordic Naturals.  Our developmental pediatrician, who actually also diagnosed my son with ADHD, says he believes they can help.  We also try to make sure she runs around outside as much as possible when it's not too yucky out.  She helps in the garden, makes mud puddles on her own with her watering can and puts her rubber boots on and goes to it.  :)  One of my favorite things about her.  She is absolutely not a sit-at-the-table-and-do-crafts kind of kid.  If there is a sensory component, our doctor feels it's mild and not out of the range of normal for the age, though I personally think some of her behavior leans toward the sensory seeking side, if anything.  But it's not overwhelming.

So interesting reading some of your stories.  To the PP who described the hitting as a reflex rather than a premeditated action – yes!  That's exactly it!  I know she knows it's wrong, because afterward, she will hug the person and say sorry.  But she just can't help herself when someone gets in her space too fast and too quickly AND she doesn't know them.  We were at a playgroup recently and it was a nanny instead of one of the moms that day and the nanny went to take her hand to show her something she thought she would like (too much too fast, I thought) and my daughter began to pull away, couldn't get away, and smacked the nanny's arm with an open hand.  Not hard.  But I was embarrassed, despite the fact that my first thought was, "Wow, I bet she was scared because she didn't know who that was."  I understand it, but sometimes I still feel a bit mortified by it.  We are trying to teach her instead to say, "Go away, please," or "I'm not ready, " or even just "No! Stop it!"  But given that my 11 year old is only just now getting good at being able to think thoughtfully proactively ahead of time about his actions before he does something, I'm guessing I'm going to be in this for a bit.   :roll:

We are looking probably to start meds when she is 6, and trying everything else in the meantime.  She IS able to use mindfulness already and will take a 2-minute timeout and calm down within 45 seconds doing deep breathing, counting to 10 and saying, "Calm down," to herself very slowly and quietly.  I have been very impressed with that.[/quote]

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