Reply to Feeling guilty about treatment towards ex SIL

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "Feeling guilty about treatment towards ex SIL"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the first cheating innocent that you KNOW OF.  This is the first rif in their marriage you have seen.  How the hell do you know she didn't try to save her marriage??? What a bitchy thing to say. "She didn't try"…well maybe she's been trying for years.  [/quote]

She told my mother that's the only time he cheated and she doesn't want to go counseling and is completely done with him.[/quote]
So what? Why is it any of your business? Focus on supporting your niece, not judging and punishing your SIL.[/quote]

I only mentioned it because of the PP I was quoting. You're right, it's none of my business, but I do think she should've went to counseling.[/quote]

God, people really say should've went? 
[b]Whether she tried to save her marriage is none of your concern. Shouldn't have needed saving to begin with. She certainly owes you NOTHING. And you want to call her and say no hard feelings??? [/b]You are really ignorant. [/quote]
+1 You should be asking her for forgiveness, not acting like you are doing her some huge favor by reaching out. Her husband cheated on her, her marriage is breaking up, and you're giving her the cold shoulder because you think she didn't try hard enough? That's cruel and SO not your call. Are you projecting your anger onto her to avoid blaming your brother? Because otherwise I really don't see how you could think this is remotely acceptable.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics