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[quote=Anonymous]My closest gay male friend has twins with his loving husband.  They have a beautiful family and a minivan and a house in the 'burbs.  Thinking of getting a labrador, literally have a white picket fence.  The whole deal.

BUT.  When my friend realized that he wanted a family (right before he met his husband), he literally changed careers from a job he loved to one that is long hours and high stress but pays $$$.  It took years of saving and the price of a decent new car to get their twins, and they were lucky (surrogacy took on the first try, no miscarriages or medical issues and babies carried to term).  We know another gay couple who took two tries for surrogacy to stick and then their twins were born as 32-week preemies at the other end of the country and dads had to fly back and forth during their extended and expensive NICU stay.

The point is, if I were a gay man and knew I wanted a family and thought I COULD be sexually compatible with a wife instead of a husband, it would certainly simplify everything else.  If he isn't rolling in dough, and he is interested in women too, then this may be the best way to get to the outcome he wants.[/quote]

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