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[quote=Anonymous]I can't tell if you've mentioned your feelings on the unkempt beard to your husband, or your other concerns.  Have you had any discussions with him re: what you would like in a partnership?  A good, non-threatening talk over wine might help.  Just a check in to see what can be improved.  If that doesn't work, you could escalate to counseling.

For the woman who said she has let herself go, it's unclear what you mean.  If it means you have put on a few pounds or don't wear heels anymore, that is one thing.  But if you don't brush your hair anymore (similar to the unkempt beard) and don't brush your teeth, that's way worse.  I am very turned off when my husband doesn't do the basics (shower, shave, brush and floss).  I find it pretty gross when he comes in to kiss me with food between his front teeth because he doesn't like flossing.  I have told my husband this, and he still doesn't do anything about it.  It is pretty odd that he doesn't get the correlation that I won't have sex when he's gross, especially odd because I flat out tell him and then he still gets all mopey if we don't have sex even if he doesn't just go brush his teeth.[/quote]

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