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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a long term affair, off and on, for 25 years! (Long story...) He became a part of my identity after all that time. I do still think about him, naturally, but more in a way that I hope he's happy. Not longing or pining for him. I used to think we had a great love story. With time and distance, I've realized that life is not a romance novel. People move on; they are resilient. Part of being resilient is that you do get to the point where your ex is no longer looming large in your thoughts. I'm certain your husband is well on his way toward this healing-- focusing on the here and now and the future.[/quote] Sappy stories like this do not help. It's like the opposite of what needs to happen. I even hate you after that Lifetime story. [/quote]
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