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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First question: do you have kids? [/quote]

Grown kids yes[/quote]

Then I am going to say yes. The reason being is that there is nothing worse than cheating when you have children. He is morally deprived and self centered. He is probably still contacting her. [/quote]

I'm certain he is not contacting her - he is being completely transparent with me about his phone and time etc.  But you did answer my question - he wants to but won't because I am in the way.  I need to figure out if this is enough for me moving forward. [/quote]

My former AP was also totally transparent with his wife with his phone and his time. We would only communicate on gchat (from a secret account), during work hours, and had a standing late lunch at a hotel by his office that I paid for, twice per week. The time was blocked off on his calendar as a one-on-one with various staff members. This went on for four years after his wife catching us (eight years in all), before I finally broke it off.[/quote]

That's pretty chilling. Glad you came to your senses. I pity his wife.[/quote]

I do too. And I have thought about telling her, but she knows he is a cheater, and telling her would only cause more pain, that she never deserved in the first place.

And, like OP, she doesn't have the means to maintain her lifestyle on her own, so she is stuck with him.[/quote]

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