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[quote=Anonymous]My dh was like this for many years and still can slide back into it at times. We got very close to separating in my mind and I think he felt it too. At that low, I felt detached and didn't care any more what happened to our marriage. I missed fun and humor. Somehow he got that message and has been better since. He had done therapy over the years and it helped a little, but really it was ultimately a choice he made to be willing to lighten up. I do believe he has undiagnosed ADHD and would benefit from meds. He's terrible at coping when things don't go according to how they should in his head. My son not eating (or doing anything g perfectly--he's just 6) is a huge trigger. I honestly believe my dh suffered from a form of ptsd after kids (complications and medical issues early on). He was just a miserable person. Somehow he pulled himself out of it for now...

My guess is your dw needs to know that you do have a bottom line and she's about to hit it. She is taking you for granted and needs to be willing to make some changes. It is hurting your kid. Chronic stress hurts everyone.[/quote]

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