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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This may not be the right forum, but I'm over 50 and with all of the Trump revelations and brave women coming to light I have wondered, more often lately. Is it too late to do anything about a rape that occurred by my next door neighbor, a World Bank French employee at the time, from more than 20 years ago? I was drugged after a dinner party, and woke up semi-conscious to find he directing his wife to have her way with me. My husband was next door, oblivious as they were our "neighbors". The next day I reported it to my best friend, husband and wrote a long letter which I saved a xerox copy of to this day. It was a different time, and I knew the wife was doing as her husband wished, and they had a small child, therefore reporting it was out of the question. It still haunts me and I'm still angry. Thoughts? [/quote Sorry that it happened to you - you should have informed your husband/preacher/police. with in 3 to 4 months period, again period. if you didn't want to take actions 20 years ago then I'm thinking you only want attention now. if it was not important enough to report back then it not important enough now. if it really bothers you seek treatment. I like the German law - if you accuse someone of a crime and then decide not to pursue or proved it was all made-up You get the max sentence that the other person would have got if found guilty [/quote]
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