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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My burning question is why your GF chose to share this with you. [b]The only reason I can think of is that she has reservations about you/your relationship but is unable/unwilling to voice her own concerns. [/b]Therefore, she is voicing the alleged concerns her friends have and using them as a proxy for her opinions. Whether their opinions are her opinions, I find it problematic for her to share the negative opinions and not facts with you.[/quote] +1 Bingo[/quote] Yep she is very manipulative and passive aggressive. This is a major red flag. You need to bail on this one. What ever you do, do not marry her. This will only get worst with kids. Your post shows you have doubts. Listen to your inner voice. This could be the difference between being in a good healthy marriage or a relationship forum train wreck posting in a few years.[/quote]
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