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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP:  [b]You're all a bunch of 20-something shitheads who don't really know anything about anything yet.  You're just play-acting at relationships.  None of this shit is serious; you're just copying sit com behavior you saw on "Friends" or "How I Met Your Mother" or "The Big Bang Theory."[/b]

What you need to do is decide whether the gf you are with and have been with for three years is someone who you want to move forward with.  It kind of sounds like you're not in her permanent long-range plans.  You're just both spinning your wheels.

Three years is long enough for you to know whether or not you have a future with her.

It doesn't sound like it.

You have my permission to dump her.[/quote]

The second half of your post is pretty helpful, but the first half is just unnecessary. They are not play acting at 25. They are learning about, and navigating, adult, long term relationships. Why be so hateful?

I have been married 25 years, but I can still remember being young and having "problems," even if they are not the same kinds of problems I have now. Empathy can go a long way.[/quote]

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