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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the H of OP.  Went back and since people seem to be curious as to what happened, it has been a most interesting week.

My (now) Ex decided NOT to take the house.  Instead she packed up her stuff and moved to be with her lover.  We have an agreement in principle, but it needs to be formalized and signed, and it is in my favor.

I buy her out of the house. DD stays with me.   I pay her alimony (28% of my gross, or 48K/yr for 10 years.  She gets 1/2 the 401K (I could have separated the premarital value and subsequent growth, but it would not be that much).  Oh, and she has to pay me child support.  (700/mo, so I will pay her 3300 instead of 4K/mo).

The big change was the one condition I put on her living in/getting the house:  I did not want her AP to be in the house when DD was present.  And, I printed the thread and showed it to my Lawyer.  She (my Lawyer) showed it to W's lawyer who then dropped all demands.

We sign the paperwork after thanksgiving.

BTW, DD is horrified by her mother's behavior.[/quote]
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THREE CHEERS FOR H of OP!! You kicked ass![/b]

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Because paying someone who cheated on you 28% of your gross income is winning.   :roll:

No, this sucks, but at least he's done with it.  Now he just has to live with watching his money pay for his ex's vacations with man lover.[/quote]

Because he did what he had to do to safeguard his daughter and get away from a horrible person. Even came out ahead.

A) He got rid of the cheating cow
B) She's no longer getting a fully-paid off 600K house
C) It is now quite clear who is at fault in this divorce btwn the partners and the DD knows what an awful woman her mother is
D) He kept the rights to inheritances
E) Plus custody rights (look who's paying child support)

Personally I wouldn't want to pay her a red cent but that's not legal, so at least he's done with it, cashing in on 10x what he's giving her, and he stills getting his normal paycheck + what's left of the retirement account. [/quote]

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