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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are taking a step back, and owning what you care about - you are not "just doing everything." I don't demand that things get done my way, and if I care about it, I do it. What I've found is that it gives my resistant DH to do the things he cares about, in his way. If you are picturing the detachment as giving up and not expecting anything of your partner, you aren't getting it. It's also very easy to think you are doing everything because you don't really see your partners contributions when you are in reactive mode. I realized my DH does quite a bit in the mornings that I wasn't giving him credit for. He takes it easier in the evening when I'm at my most productive. stepping back and observing will often show a bigger picture. I own that when I do "more" I'm choosing to. [/quote] OP here. This was my experience as well.[/quote]
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