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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a sexless marriage. And when I say sexless, I mean sexless. [b]My marriage of 10 years has never been consummated. [/b]  We lived together for years before getting married and had a great sex life. With no kids we travelled around the world attending fancy parties in places like NYC, Venice, Cuba and Monaco. But as we grew older, it occurred to me that it we didn't have a kid now, we never would. We decided to try and then married while DW was pregnant. [b]We didn't have sex during pregnancy.[/b] After DS was born, DW lost all interest in sex. At first she told me it was because women have no sex drive while lactating. I was like "oh, ok, didn't know that."  One woman at my office told me that was ridiculous, but I just accepted it. But when nursing stopped, DW continued to sleep with DS. When DW finally returned to our bed, she said that since giving birth, she had losr all interest in sex. This is not to say that I haven't had any sex at all in the past 10 years. DW was always very open minded about sex. She doesn't consider a massage with a happy ending to be cheating. When I've gone to conventions in Rio she doesn't even consider a visit to a bathhouse to be cheating. To her, it's only cheating if there is emotion involved. In every other way, our marriage is great. We are best friends and DW is a great mom. I used to hate our sexless situation, but I have grown to accept it. As I've grown older, my own libido has declined. [/quote]

Wait, what now? How did she get pregnant if your marriage was never consummated? Did she have sex with some other guy and not you?[/quote]

Took me a second look to figure it out too but he says they got married while she was pregnant. [/quote]

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