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[quote=Anonymous]One way to look at this situation:

Actions have consequences and so often our compassionate care-giving nature means we don't have healthy boundaries and we try to be all noble about integrating the OC/OW as a "family member" ???!!!

f@#k that shit

and OC is not a step anything... it can be a loved child but IT IS NOT A LOVE CHILD

Fucking around breeding is not the same as creating a family under a matrimonial bond.

Fine = God made the child. I accept OC's existence. No different than I accept that rain happens and I have no control over it. That doesn't mean I accept crazy OW thinking I signed up to being part of a herd mentality and sister-wife. Absolutely do not ever consider it acceptable that WH has any alone time with OW = what are we teaching our children otherwise about respect, honor, fidelity and where a father is a protector and provider of the sacred meaning of the word FAMILY, not simply a stud and paycheck.

It's a tough balance between trying to teach morality and compassion in all this gray mess - we all are imperfect...but sorry, that doesn't mean I enable unhealthy behavior just because I don't want to rock the boat, as that is not having any empathy for my own valid needs.

to all the new members - loving yourself at this time and doing what is right for you in this moment will pay back dividends in the long run

and this journey is truly a marathon

always remember that true fathers are shepherds and true mothers are teachers

always strive to realize it is more important to guide a child to know the IS that ALWAYS just IS / JOY

who are they? 
why are they here? 
where are they going?

it's so much more than just genetics[/quote]

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