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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women stupid enough to have babies with married men should get absolutely nothing.  It is contributory negligence.  Married Men who can't keep their pants zipped should be given a public vasectomy and a damn good public flogging![/quote]

Amen[/quote]

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It's not about the mom. It's  about the child. The child didn't choose to have  pathetic people for parents. The child deserves to be cared for. The child's father  is equally responsible for the child's care.

Despite what you want to believe allowing your husband to neglect the child he made  "to get back at" the OW will not make you feel better or make your husband's affair  any less real.[/quote]

OP here - Is this to me?  I didn't type Amen.  You are right, the child is an innocent victim and my children are just as innocent.  I am divorcing my husband so I am not allowing him to "neglect" the child.  The child also has a father who is raising him. She is not a single mother.  He was there for the baby shower, birth, baptism, etc.  Being biologically related to someone is not near as important as being emotionally bonded.

One of our children is adopted, one is biological.  I love them both the same. My husband is our adopted child's father 100%.   I don't consider the woman who gave up my daughter for adoption as neglecting her.   My two kids share zero DNA and are really close. This would be my son's half brother technically but nothing to my daughter.   I am not trying to "get back" at the other woman.  What is in the best interest of all the children?  I really don't know.[/quote]

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