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[quote=Anonymous]OP you and your husband need counseling immediately. DH cheated for several years with the same FWB. Four years and several years of intense therapy later, we are happy. Truly happy. How we got here is another story and it's not for the feint of heart. Most people can't imagine staying with someone who completely violated everything that is sacred in a marriage. I couldn't imagine staying either, and was quite righteous about such things until it happened to me. All I can say is that your husband needs help. And you need support too. Whether to stay or go will become obvious once you begin to communicate with him instead of us. Under the guidance of a professional. I learned some things about my husband that broke me heart and had nothing to do with me. More importantly, he owned the dark side that twisted his decisions and the excuses he made for his stunning betrayals. I didn't intend to stay. I intended to leave as soon as I had a good exit plan. It may be true that most men will never change. Once a cheater, always a cheater. But I believe that we all change and grow in life, some more dramatically than others. Your husband may be a jerk, or he may need help to become the man he wants to be.[/quote]
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