Anonymous wrote:
I do not understand the "wait and see, play all kinds of games" responses especially if you've had no other reason to be worried about infidelity. THIS IS YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHER OF YOUR KIDS. Go to him. Tell him what you found. Hear his response/exclamation. Take it from there! Christ, who can live being the sort of person who attaches locks and codes and hides money for the escape and sets-up phony profiles to catch him in the act. This isn't a freaking Lifetime movie, this is your EXISTENCE, act like a grown-up. Have your own integrity regardless of what he may or may not be doing.
Game players are children.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It looks like he doesn't have a paid membership so he can't actually talk or message with anyone. He basically is looking at pictures. Honestly, I don't care about that, it really doesn't bother me if he wants to look at porn but why on this particular website? Aren't there better sites for porn that don't involve a website specifically for cheating?
Anonymous wrote:He may just be waiting for you to go out of town again. Will you be traveling soon? If he set it up while you were traveling, and if you know where he is much of the time (and he knows it? He may just be waiting Til you are away again.
Anonymous wrote:
I do not understand the "wait and see, play all kinds of games" responses especially if you've had no other reason to be worried about infidelity. THIS IS YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHER OF YOUR KIDS. Go to him. Tell him what you found. Hear his response/exclamation. Take it from there! Christ, who can live being the sort of person who attaches locks and codes and hides money for the escape and sets-up phony profiles to catch him in the act. This isn't a freaking Lifetime movie, this is your EXISTENCE, act like a grown-up. Have your own integrity regardless of what he may or may not be doing.
Game players are children.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It looks like he doesn't have a paid membership so he can't actually talk or message with anyone. He basically is looking at pictures. Honestly, I don't care about that, it really doesn't bother me if he wants to look at porn but why on this particular website? Aren't there better sites for porn that don't involve a website specifically for cheating?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It looks like he doesn't have a paid membership so he can't actually talk or message with anyone. He basically is looking at pictures. Honestly, I don't care about that, it really doesn't bother me if he wants to look at porn but why on this particular website? Aren't there better sites for porn that don't involve a website specifically for cheating?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Childhood upbringing and attachment styles are the biggest predictor of infidelity...
http://www.helenfisher.com/downloads/articles/INFIDELITY.pdf
http://www.shirleyglass.com/introduction.htm
Interesting, the second link contains this quote:
I discovered that women’s infidelities were about unhappy marriages and falling in love with somebody else, and men’s infidelities were more about the desire for sexual excitement than because of an unhappy marriage.
But wait, this is the same author Shirley Glass who supposedly says that men don't cheat due to unsatisfying sexlife.