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I do not understand the "wait and see, play all kinds of games" responses especially if you've had no other reason to be worried about infidelity. THIS IS YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHER OF YOUR KIDS. Go to him. Tell him what you found. Hear his response/exclamation.  Take it from there! Christ, who can live being the sort of person who attaches locks and codes and hides money for the escape and sets-up phony profiles to catch him in the act. This isn't a freaking Lifetime movie, this is your EXISTENCE, act like a grown-up. Have your own integrity regardless of what he may or may not be doing.

Game players are children.[/quote]

It's very much not a game to me. If I wasn't in this position and giving advice to someone else I'd probably think the same thing as you. When I found out initially my first instinct was to confront him and discuss it. But when I had time to think about it in my gut I knew I couldn't trust what he said. If he said he was just curious and it was a 1 time thing how would I know for sure he wasn't lying and then in the future he's just going to be more careful and erase his browser history. I needed to know exactly what I am dealing with first so I know how to proceed. I'm fairly confident that at THIS point, he has no intention of taking it further. I don't know if it's just a weird curiosity or it's like porn to him. Either way, I know what I need to know now. My gut tells me that right now he has no intention of taking it further but if he continues to let his curiosity get the best of him, who knows what will happen. SO now I know I need to say something but I'm also terrified. [/quote]

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