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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP.  That has to be rough to be in the same house and know he is looking at the stuff while you are in bed - as in, why couldn't he just come to bed and get some action?  It's not like you've been gone for a long time or something.

I think porn is totally different than this.  People in porn make it to be viewed as porn, and mostly are not accessible to date the viewers.  So it's pure fantasy.  To me, it's kind of like reading romance novels, but with live people.  I personally don't like porn for unrelated reasons (basically, it seems exploitative), but I would not freak out if I found out that my husband was looking at porn, and I wouldn't think it as a sign of a problem in the marriage.  If I found my husband on a "cheating" website, that would be a whole other ballgame.  The fact that he's doing this is just not good and, to me at least, is a character flaw, though I don't know if it's minor or major.

I think asking him about is a good idea, but I think him just saying "oops" is not enough.  He should explain why he was driven to do this, and commit to not doing it again and working on why it is that he went this route.  [/quote]

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