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[quote=Anonymous]I would be honest with him.  I'd tell him what you discovered but not with the intention of a confession.  Instead I would lay down the law and explain you have zero tolerance for this BS.  It's a good opportunity to discuss how you define cheating and ask him what his expectations are.  I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him you assume he was just looking.  However, if you find out this craziness continues you're not sure you can stick around.  That if he wants to be with these women and perhaps start a relationship (the thought of that will terrify him) then you need to go on your own way.  Make him scared he'll lose his happy home.

if you go the route of sneaking around and trying to catch him you're more likely to end up with an enemy and getting divorced.  If you're fine with that, then go ahead.  But maybe you don't need to be "right" all the time and instead you want to save your marriage.  There's a good chance your husband is simply being an idiot and needs a firm reminder of what an idiot he is and what a good thing he has at home.  If you do the sneak attack method you won't be reminding him what a good thing he has at home.  [/quote]

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