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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm curious about the points below:

What makes you unattracted to your spouse?

Are you still attracted to and turned on by other men (cute doctor, guy at the gym etc) or is that part of your brain just switched off entirely?

What would you say is the main reason (relationship or otherwise) that you and your spouse are not sexually active?

Do you still take care of your own needs? (Masturbation)[/quote]

1) I still find my DH attractive.  I just don't have the same desire for him as I did when we were newlyweds.  I assume this is true for most women.

2) Rarely, that part is mostly switched off.

3) We have sex a couple times a month, but lack of desire is routine, exhaustion, no time for me.  Sex is just not something I want.  Sometimes I get into it when we start.

4) Occasionally.[/quote]

The novelty of a new relationship isn't hitting your gas pedal as much as it used to, and the context of your relationship with your spouse isn't often sexy in other ways that hit the gas pedal. Meanwhile, you have a lot more things (e.g. kids, mortgage, work, stress of all kinds) hitting the brake pedal than you used to.  Easier said than done, but if you want [b]to want[/b] more and better sex, [b]your husband and you[/b] have to figure out ways to rearrange your life to reduce the brake and hit the gas. [/quote]

Not PP, but I fixed this for you.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com//graphic/ss/50-1.html[/quote]

This was really an interesting read.  I may show this to my husband.  It would be great if getting in the mood for sex didn't feel like a lot of work and effort on my part.  We still have sex 2-3 times a week, and he doesn't complain, but it feels to me more like exercising 2-3 times a week...I enjoy it, but I mostly do it to stay healthy...than, say, eating ice cream 2-3 times a week...something I do just because it makes me happy.    
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More b.s. telling woman it's them and hubby has to always get his way. If not it must end in counseling, lol. Admit it, you're are doing it so you don't end up in divorce court losing half your assets.  Yes he doesn't complain because you've weighed all the options like many women.  [/quote]

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