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3-I feel like he is only nice to me when he wants sex and that makes me resentful 
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Not at all saying this is the case for PP, but "only nice when he wants sex" reminded me of similar comments by my wife at times. When my wife made a comment along those lines, it surprised me and made me a little mad. I feel like: a) I'm frequently kind, thoughtful, and nice to my wife; and b) my wife takes me for granted and often doesn't notice me. She does notice me when I'm trying to initiate sex, but notices me negatively. If I'm not doing something that generates negative attention, I might as well be part of the furniture. So, no matter how many nonsexual touches I've initiated -- no expectation of sex, no move to escalate, nothing but a touch on the arm, back scratch, kiss on the cheek, foot massage, whatever -- when I do touch her in a sexual way, she notices that and forgets (or never noticed) the other interactions.

There's no winning in that scenario. [/quote]

I'm sorry to hear that, PP.  I'm the person you quoted.  He will be a dick to me all day and then approach me at bedtime and I just want to smack him.  I've been upfront about it; I think we are both trying now.[/quote]

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