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[quote=Anonymous]The answer to me is easy: 1. DH is willing to be generous with you and the children 2. DH is responsible and wants to save some money and not just spend wildly 3. Agree on what a reasonable amount of personal (not kid related) expenditures is for pampering you (shopping for non essential clothes, meals & drinks with your girlfriends, spa/salon, personal trainers, beauty treatments, etc). 4. Agree that you have discretion over that spending amount (which I'm going to guess is vast) and then cut out some of your luxury spending and divert it to your brother if you want Going back to work is not the solution. You don't have the right to unilaterally do that. It is something that you and DH agreed would be best for the family.[/quote]
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