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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You did the right thing. I don't think it's that big of a deal unless BIL is still hurt by it. My mother was beaten as a child. She came from a family where harsh whippings were just the norm not regular whippings, but whippings with cords, hangers, switches, etc. She and my grandmother have the best relationship. My grandmother acknowledges it was wrong and my mother chose to forgive her, it's just the way some people dealt with kids back in the day. [/quote] People still do. It was wrong then, it's wrong now. People us this phrase to excuse racism too, and it's bullshit. My father was born in 1918--he's neither a racist, nor was he ever hit with hangers. Because it has always been wrong.[/quote]
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